We are reading these books
Release time:
2022-09-27
Practical Eeloquence Knowledge and Skills
Share: Wu Yunqiao
In our daily life and work, we always encounter different occasions and need to communicate with different people. In communication, we need to say what is suitable for the occasion. Proper communication skills will often help us solve many problems. A person who can speak can express his intention clearly and fluently, so that others are willing to accept it. We also often see many people who can't speak. They can't fully express their intentions, which makes the other party sound troublesome, and can't make others accept it convincingly, causing communication difficulties.
In the process of communicating with customers, I found that I lacked the ability to express myself, so I chose "Practical Eeloquence Knowledge and Skills", hoping to enrich my spare time and improve my ability to communicate.
This book summarizes the communication methods and skills in today's society, combined with examples, it is more practical and readable. Its content covers life eloquence, social eloquence, marketing eloquence, interview eloquence, workplace eloquence, debate eloquence, speech eloquence, business eloquence, leadership eloquence and other aspects. Among them, how to obtain the trust of customers, how to arouse the interest of customers, and how to resolve the contradiction with customers left a deep impression on me.
After reading this book carefully, I learned a lot and felt deeply. I have summed up some experiences. To learn to speak, one must first learn to listen to people. Understand the main characteristics of negotiations, negotiations with different customers in order to ease, deal with ease. When reporting work, you should clearly express the intention you want to express, be concise and comprehensive, and use the simplest language to convey the most effective message to the leader.
Don't flatter yourself or praise too much when socializing. Communicate with others with ease and ease.
A seemingly simple book, but it hides a lot of knowledge. Every reading can bring me ideological progress and communication skills in life. It makes me gradually become a decent person, let me reduce some contradictions caused by communication in my work, and make my work more smoothly.
Chinese entertainment
sharer: Liu Chen Qian
Chinese society is inevitable with all kinds of entertainment. "Chinese-style entertainment " is often linked to meals, especially in Guizhou, a big province with rich and colorful liquor culture, it is inevitable to deal with wine in life and social life. However, I have not been out of school for a few years, and I have little social experience. I often don't know what to do or say when I socialize. It is hard to avoid embarrassment, so I want to find a way from the book. I chose this book because many people recommended it. After reading it, I did increase a lot of knowledge and realized some problems that I had not thought about or realized before.
When I was toasting people before, I often didn't know what to say, so I had to say a few words of thanks to hurry up. Some of the skills mentioned in the book have opened my mind, such as "Respect Features " , expressing affirmation of each other's factual achievements, experience and ability, style of doing things, etc. Another example is "Grateful Facts " , looking for help or changes brought to oneself when interfacing with each other in the past. In addition, when others toast to express their wishes or gratitude, they cannot use words such as "good " "thank you " to perfunctory.
Personal remarks during the meal should also pay attention to many details. For example, it is better to be a fan than a fan, not to be a fan, to talk as little as possible, to talk only at critical times, and to find more steps for people. When clinking glasses, no matter what the other party's identity, their cup mouth should not be higher than the other party's, and try to be flush with or lower than the other party's cup mouth to show humility. Share your own stories more. Many people like to listen to other people's stories, especially on occasions like the dinner table. Everyone's comments and complaints about your story can not only enliven the atmosphere of the meal, but also enhance your feelings with everyone. Also, don't talk big, less "team " , more wait-and-see, maintain a neutral attitude; Say more praise to others than harm others. Control yourself, don't get drunk, etc.
In a word, in "Chinese social intercourse " , there are rules, methods and skills. It is necessary to talk about strategy, ingenuity and modification. It is not enough to drink and talk.
However, there are often unsatisfactory aspects in the writing of this kind of books. For example, it is hard to avoid being boring to read many times around several major principles. Many situations in real life are unpredictable, and the principles in the book are not necessarily correct, let alone applicable to all situations, but as long as you understand and master the useful parts, you will always bring some progress to your interpersonal communication.
The Art of Communication
Shared by: Pan Yiyuan
The Art of Communication I read sold well in 40 and reprinted 15 times. It can be called the Bible of communication. Everything is covered, from theory to technique, from the nature of relationships to self-concept, from emotions to listening, from intimacy to parenting.
After entering Huang Ping's peak job, I often need to communicate with people in my new position. I have been trying to read different types of books on communication, but they are all textbook-like, boring and boring, and I don't understand them after reading them. The Art of Communication completely subverts my understanding of books. It is not a big, thick brick-like textbook. It is easy to read and the knowledge points are easy to understand. Many knowledge points are also accompanied by relevant movie recommendations. Friends who like to watch movies can better understand knowledge points. It can be said that "The Art of Communication" is a dictionary book about communication. It is kept on the bookcase. If you quarrel with your wife, your child loses his temper, your colleagues have friction, and you feel a little hard to communicate with customers. Take out the book and look for the reason and the answer to the problem.
There are too many knowledge points in the book, and I haven't read and understood them all. Here are three points that I am most impressed.
First, recognize yourself before communicating. We sometimes feel that we can't communicate with someone. We all speak Chinese, but we speak chicken and duck. We almost think that the other person has a hearing problem or a brain problem. Rest assured, when we think this way, the other person thinks the same way. This is because two people can think in completely different ways. For example, for the same half glass of water, A thinks "is great, there is half a glass of water here, we can drink " , B thinks "is too bad, why is there only half a glass of water, not enough for the two of us to drink " , so we quarreled. The fact is that there is only half a glass of water. What causes the communication problem is the different views and cognition of two people on the same thing. This subjective feeling is related to one's self-concept, which is shaped by everything one has experienced from infancy to the present. Self-concept includes a person's values, world outlook, parenting outlook, career outlook and so on.
really powerful people will be self-aware, through reflection and introspection, to understand what kind of person they are, with what kind of prejudice and obsession. Then put aside some of your prejudices appropriately and do things in an objective and professional way to achieve your work goals. Of course, the process can show the advantages of individual can add points, such as persistence, willing to bear hardships, kindness.
Second, in communication, effectively express emotions. Too many people have suffered from "can't express emotions " . Where people live, there are emotions. People who cannot express their emotions are often losers. People with high EQ, they just spend some thoughts and skills on speaking, and achieve their goals more efficiently. The Art of Communication tells you to identify your emotions first. Different people have completely different recognition of emotions, and people with low perception have only a few kinds of emotions, such as happiness, sadness, and anger. In fact, there are many kinds of emotions. The book lists 132 words related to emotions.
# After 116 have a clear understanding of their emotions, the next step is to share them with others. Express your current feelings reasonably so that the other party can understand your feelings, instead of facing a sudden accusation inexplicably. In addition to sharing emotions, we also have to choose a reasonable time to express our emotions. The moment of anger is not the best time to speak. What we say is angry words, which hurt our feelings and fail to achieve our goal. The real thing is to sit down and talk about your feelings when both parties are emotionally stable.
Finally, people have to learn to be responsible for their emotions. A lot of times, it's not the thing that makes us so angry, it's the perception of it that makes us so angry. You can tell people around you that this is my bottom line. Don't touch it easily. When strangers accidentally cross the line, we should also learn to control ourselves and tell ourselves "is fine, but irrelevant people accidentally offend, I can handle my emotions " .
Third, after communication, be good at responding and ending. Everyone is eager to get recognition and response from others in communication. As colleagues, friends, and partners, we recognize and support each other's views without hesitation. Timely appreciation, praise and encouragement are the best feedback for them, which not only makes him more willing to communicate, but also makes the relationship more harmonious. The book mentions "good communication comes from the other person's enthusiastic response " , imagine, if you greet someone warmly, and the only thing you get back is to turn a blind eye or careless feedback, would you want to continue communicating with that person? No one is willing to pay for your indifference, and no one is born with respect and enthusiasm for you.
When communicating with people, it is more important to end the conversation politely. First of all, you can't show impatience, you can't look around and keep looking at your watch. Secondly, we should explain the reason to the other party and make it clear that we have other things to deal with. The other party will certainly understand. When explaining, be sure to apologize, smile and shake hands with each other. You can also end the conversation with a tactful hint or some technique, such as asking someone to call yourself, it feels like something happened suddenly. In fact, it is very likely that the other party also wants to end the dialogue. At this time, instead of being impolite, the other party will thank you. Through some small movements and micro expressions, we can see the other party's thoughts. If the other party looks at the door, or keeps looking at the time, or the direction of his toes is pointing to the door, it means that he wants to end the conversation. If their eyes are erratic and their hands touch their noses, it means that they are impatient. It is okay to put an end to these situations.
After reading this book, I told myself that I would cherish the person who is willing to listen to me quietly and not in a hurry to interrupt. It must be someone who cares about me very much to endure my chattering for so long. The second is to prepare to reduce the number of times you speak and listen more to what others say. You will be able to get more information from other people's words. This information may become another kind of unexpected joy.
More information
On January 4, the Jinhua Federation of Industry and Commerce held the sixth member congress. Jiang Xiaomeng, chairman of the group company, was elected as the chairman of the Jinhua Federation of Industry and Commerce at the meeting, and served as 20 "2016 Xinyi Good Wu Merchants" One of the commendations from relevant departments. Jinhua city leaders Zhao Guangjun, and military and civilian, Huang Jinchao, Chen Xiao, Shao Guoqiang, Xu Zhangcai attended the opening ceremony of the conference. Zhao Guangjun, Secretary of the municipal Party committee, congratulated the convening of the conference on behalf of the four groups of the city. He hoped that the Federation of industry and Commerce at all levels and the majority of non-public economic personages would unify their thoughts and actions to the deployment requirements of the plenary session of the municipal Party committee, further strengthen their confidence, grasp the general trend, forge ahead, always maintain the correct political direction, firmly promote the development of non-public economy, and make greater contributions to the rise of Zhejiang. At this meeting, Jiang Xiaomeng, chairman of the group company, was elected as the new chairman of the Jinhua City Federation of Industry and Commerce. Jiang Xiaomeng said in his speech that the Federation of Industry and Commerce is a bridge and link between the party and the government to connect with people in the non-public economy, an assistant to the government in managing and serving the non-public economy, and an important window for the interests of the broad non-public economy. it represents the fundamental interests of the broad non-public economy. In the next five years, the new Federation of Industry and Commerce will continue to enhance cohesion and influence based on service; give full play to the role of "guidance" and "bridge", and always maintain sensitivity to the new situation with advanced awareness and long-term vision, and pay close attention to domestic and foreign Industrial development trends and economic development trends, timely discover new situations, study new problems, and act as a bridge between the government and enterprises
2020
07-31
Compilation of Three-year Operation Plan Completed
After many discussions and revisions, the three-year business plan compiled by the group's subordinate enterprises was finalized in early December and compiled into a book. In order to continuously improve the company's core competitiveness and sustainable development capabilities, the group company completed the company's five-year development plan in 2013 after many discussions, and clarified the development concept of "cooperative innovation to strengthen the main business, standardize science and seek development", Put forward the role of cement as a base player and be a cost leader in the regional market; medicine is guided by scientific and technological innovation and a market leader in segmented fields. And on this basis, the specific strategic objectives and development direction are formulated. In the second half of this year, on the basis of the pilot medium-and long-term economic responsibility system of the International Trade Company and Jinhua Pharmaceutical Company, the company requires each industrial sector to prepare its own three-year business plan. This is not only one of the actions to implement the strategic plan of the group company, but also an extension of the development strategy of the group company. After full discussion and revision, the current three-year business plan has been compiled into a book, which will become the work guide for the company's professional companies and directly affiliated enterprises in the future. The preparation of medium and long-term development plans, so that the company's managers at all levels more clear about the future direction of development, to be able to develop work objectives and work plans with a long-term vision, to avoid short-sighted behavior in management, the work of the enterprise to do fine, solid, detailed, and at the same time more fully and effectively mobilize the enthusiasm of personnel at all levels. The company requires subordinate enterprises to do a good job in the publicity and implementation of the "three-year business plan" of the enterprise, and in the annual work objectives
2020
07-31
Compilation of Three-year Operation Plan Completed
After many discussions and revisions, the three-year business plan compiled by the group's subordinate enterprises was finalized in early December and compiled into a book. In order to continuously improve the company's core competitiveness and sustainable development capabilities, the group company completed the company's five-year development plan in 2013 after many discussions, and clarified the development concept of "cooperative innovation to strengthen the main business, standardize science and seek development", Put forward the role of cement as a base player and be a cost leader in the regional market; medicine is guided by scientific and technological innovation and a market leader in segmented fields. And on this basis, the specific strategic objectives and development direction are formulated. In the second half of this year, on the basis of the pilot medium-and long-term economic responsibility system of the International Trade Company and Jinhua Pharmaceutical Company, the company requires each industrial sector to prepare its own three-year business plan. This is not only one of the actions to implement the strategic plan of the group company, but also an extension of the development strategy of the group company. After full discussion and revision, the current three-year business plan has been compiled into a book, which will become the work guide for the company's professional companies and directly affiliated enterprises in the future. The preparation of medium and long-term development plans, so that the company's managers at all levels more clear about the future direction of development, to be able to develop work objectives and work plans with a long-term vision, to avoid short-sighted behavior in management, the work of the enterprise to do fine, solid, detailed, and at the same time more fully and effectively mobilize the enthusiasm of personnel at all levels. The company requires subordinate enterprises to do a good job in the publicity and implementation of the "three-year business plan" of the enterprise, and in the annual work objectives
2020
07-31
Since the beginning of the 2016 qualification evaluation work of the group company in late November, it has been carried out in an orderly manner according to the established procedures. Compared with previous years, this year, according to the actual situation of the company, new cement plate job settings and development channels and other content. According to the provisions of the Company's Measures for the Administration of Staff Qualifications, the scope of application of the qualification assessment is for all employees of the Group's non-administrative position series, which is divided into three categories: management, technology and technical operation. Among them, the management and technical categories are divided into five grades, each with 2-4 grades; the mechanic operation category is divided into four grades, each with 2-4 grades. The Group Company establishes a qualification evaluation committee, which is responsible for guiding the evaluation of the qualifications of the Group Company, and conducting the evaluation of the qualifications of each department (office) of the Group Company and the qualifications of four levels and above within the scope of the Group Company; professional companies and directly affiliated enterprises establish an evaluation organization, which is responsible for the evaluation of the qualifications of the enterprise and subordinate enterprises at level 3 and below; the Human Resources Department of CNPC is responsible for organizing the review work and carrying out the transactional work of qualification management. Compared with previous years, the company has made a supplementary revision to the "Measures for the Administration of Employee Qualifications" this year, adding a "cement sector position setting and development channel", aiming at the actual situation and professional characteristics of the current two cement companies implementing job optimization, positions such as safety and environmental protection management, sales management, procurement, warehouse management, quality management, equipment maintenance (management), electrical maintenance (management), process operation, inspection workers, etc. are set up respectively, and different levels are divided, and corresponding evaluation standards are set. In accordance with the Management Measures, the post
2020
07-31
Compilation of Three-year Operation Plan Completed
After many discussions and revisions, the three-year business plan compiled by the group's subordinate enterprises was finalized in early December and compiled into a book. In order to continuously improve the company's core competitiveness and sustainable development capabilities, the group company completed the company's five-year development plan in 2013 after many discussions, and clarified the development concept of "cooperative innovation to strengthen the main business, standardize science and seek development", Put forward the role of cement as a base player and be a cost leader in the regional market; medicine is guided by scientific and technological innovation and a market leader in segmented fields. And on this basis, the specific strategic objectives and development direction are formulated. In the second half of this year, on the basis of the pilot medium-and long-term economic responsibility system of the International Trade Company and Jinhua Pharmaceutical Company, the company requires each industrial sector to prepare its own three-year business plan. This is not only one of the actions to implement the strategic plan of the group company, but also an extension of the development strategy of the group company. After full discussion and revision, the current three-year business plan has been compiled into a book, which will become the work guide for the company's professional companies and directly affiliated enterprises in the future. The preparation of medium and long-term development plans, so that the company's managers at all levels more clear about the future direction of development, to be able to develop work objectives and work plans with a long-term vision, to avoid short-sighted behavior in management, the work of the enterprise to do fine, solid, detailed, and at the same time more fully and effectively mobilize the enthusiasm of personnel at all levels. The company requires subordinate enterprises to do a good job in the publicity and implementation of the "three-year business plan" of the enterprise, and in the annual work objectives
2020
07-30
"Peak" was identified as China's well-known trademark
Recently, the Trademark Office of the State Administration for Industry and Commerce issued a document that the "Jianfeng" trademark held by Jianfeng Pharmaceutical Company was recognized as a well-known trademark. The main contents of the "Reply of the Trademark Office of the State Administration for Industry and Commerce on the Identification of" Jianfeng "Trademark as a Well-known Trademark" (Shang Standard Chi Zi [2016] No. 121) are as follows: according to the relevant provisions of the Trademark Law, the regulations for the implementation of the Trademark Law and the provisions on the identification and protection of well-known trademarks, after examination and research, it is recognized that the registered trademark of "Jianfeng" used by Zhejiang Jianfeng Pharmaceutical Co., Ltd. in category 5 of the International Classification of Goods and Services for Trademark Registration is a well-known trademark. The identification of the well-known trademark has effectively enhanced the brand value of the company, helped to improve the popularity of the company's products, and further strengthened the protection of the "peak" trademark. (Zhou Hengbin) News link: "well-known trademark" (Well-knownTradeMark), also known as well-known trademark, first appeared in the Paris Convention for the Protection of Industrial property signed in 1883. According to international and domestic intellectual property laws and regulations, the well-known trademark system is created to fully protect the legitimate rights and interests of well-known trademark owners. Its purpose is to reasonably protect the relevant trademark ownership, maintain fair competition, and stop infringement of others' trademark exclusive rights. behavior. China joined the Convention in 1984, according to the provisions of the Convention to give special legal protection to well-known trademarks, has become an important part of China's trademark legal work. Well-known trademarks in China (ChinaFam
2020
07-31