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2022-09-27
Practical Eeloquence Knowledge and Skills
Share: Wu Yunqiao
In our daily life and work, we always encounter different occasions and need to communicate with different people. In communication, we need to say what is suitable for the occasion. Proper communication skills will often help us solve many problems. A person who can speak can express his intention clearly and fluently, so that others are willing to accept it. We also often see many people who can't speak. They can't fully express their intentions, which makes the other party sound troublesome, and can't make others accept it convincingly, causing communication difficulties.
In the process of communicating with customers, I found that I lacked the ability to express myself, so I chose "Practical Eeloquence Knowledge and Skills", hoping to enrich my spare time and improve my ability to communicate.
This book summarizes the communication methods and skills in today's society, combined with examples, it is more practical and readable. Its content covers life eloquence, social eloquence, marketing eloquence, interview eloquence, workplace eloquence, debate eloquence, speech eloquence, business eloquence, leadership eloquence and other aspects. Among them, how to obtain the trust of customers, how to arouse the interest of customers, and how to resolve the contradiction with customers left a deep impression on me.
After reading this book carefully, I learned a lot and felt deeply. I have summed up some experiences. To learn to speak, one must first learn to listen to people. Understand the main characteristics of negotiations, negotiations with different customers in order to ease, deal with ease. When reporting work, you should clearly express the intention you want to express, be concise and comprehensive, and use the simplest language to convey the most effective message to the leader.
Don't flatter yourself or praise too much when socializing. Communicate with others with ease and ease.
A seemingly simple book, but it hides a lot of knowledge. Every reading can bring me ideological progress and communication skills in life. It makes me gradually become a decent person, let me reduce some contradictions caused by communication in my work, and make my work more smoothly.
Chinese entertainment
sharer: Liu Chen Qian
Chinese society is inevitable with all kinds of entertainment. "Chinese-style entertainment " is often linked to meals, especially in Guizhou, a big province with rich and colorful liquor culture, it is inevitable to deal with wine in life and social life. However, I have not been out of school for a few years, and I have little social experience. I often don't know what to do or say when I socialize. It is hard to avoid embarrassment, so I want to find a way from the book. I chose this book because many people recommended it. After reading it, I did increase a lot of knowledge and realized some problems that I had not thought about or realized before.
When I was toasting people before, I often didn't know what to say, so I had to say a few words of thanks to hurry up. Some of the skills mentioned in the book have opened my mind, such as "Respect Features " , expressing affirmation of each other's factual achievements, experience and ability, style of doing things, etc. Another example is "Grateful Facts " , looking for help or changes brought to oneself when interfacing with each other in the past. In addition, when others toast to express their wishes or gratitude, they cannot use words such as "good " "thank you " to perfunctory.
Personal remarks during the meal should also pay attention to many details. For example, it is better to be a fan than a fan, not to be a fan, to talk as little as possible, to talk only at critical times, and to find more steps for people. When clinking glasses, no matter what the other party's identity, their cup mouth should not be higher than the other party's, and try to be flush with or lower than the other party's cup mouth to show humility. Share your own stories more. Many people like to listen to other people's stories, especially on occasions like the dinner table. Everyone's comments and complaints about your story can not only enliven the atmosphere of the meal, but also enhance your feelings with everyone. Also, don't talk big, less "team " , more wait-and-see, maintain a neutral attitude; Say more praise to others than harm others. Control yourself, don't get drunk, etc.
In a word, in "Chinese social intercourse " , there are rules, methods and skills. It is necessary to talk about strategy, ingenuity and modification. It is not enough to drink and talk.
However, there are often unsatisfactory aspects in the writing of this kind of books. For example, it is hard to avoid being boring to read many times around several major principles. Many situations in real life are unpredictable, and the principles in the book are not necessarily correct, let alone applicable to all situations, but as long as you understand and master the useful parts, you will always bring some progress to your interpersonal communication.
The Art of Communication
Shared by: Pan Yiyuan
The Art of Communication I read sold well in 40 and reprinted 15 times. It can be called the Bible of communication. Everything is covered, from theory to technique, from the nature of relationships to self-concept, from emotions to listening, from intimacy to parenting.
After entering Huang Ping's peak job, I often need to communicate with people in my new position. I have been trying to read different types of books on communication, but they are all textbook-like, boring and boring, and I don't understand them after reading them. The Art of Communication completely subverts my understanding of books. It is not a big, thick brick-like textbook. It is easy to read and the knowledge points are easy to understand. Many knowledge points are also accompanied by relevant movie recommendations. Friends who like to watch movies can better understand knowledge points. It can be said that "The Art of Communication" is a dictionary book about communication. It is kept on the bookcase. If you quarrel with your wife, your child loses his temper, your colleagues have friction, and you feel a little hard to communicate with customers. Take out the book and look for the reason and the answer to the problem.
There are too many knowledge points in the book, and I haven't read and understood them all. Here are three points that I am most impressed.
First, recognize yourself before communicating. We sometimes feel that we can't communicate with someone. We all speak Chinese, but we speak chicken and duck. We almost think that the other person has a hearing problem or a brain problem. Rest assured, when we think this way, the other person thinks the same way. This is because two people can think in completely different ways. For example, for the same half glass of water, A thinks "is great, there is half a glass of water here, we can drink " , B thinks "is too bad, why is there only half a glass of water, not enough for the two of us to drink " , so we quarreled. The fact is that there is only half a glass of water. What causes the communication problem is the different views and cognition of two people on the same thing. This subjective feeling is related to one's self-concept, which is shaped by everything one has experienced from infancy to the present. Self-concept includes a person's values, world outlook, parenting outlook, career outlook and so on.
really powerful people will be self-aware, through reflection and introspection, to understand what kind of person they are, with what kind of prejudice and obsession. Then put aside some of your prejudices appropriately and do things in an objective and professional way to achieve your work goals. Of course, the process can show the advantages of individual can add points, such as persistence, willing to bear hardships, kindness.
Second, in communication, effectively express emotions. Too many people have suffered from "can't express emotions " . Where people live, there are emotions. People who cannot express their emotions are often losers. People with high EQ, they just spend some thoughts and skills on speaking, and achieve their goals more efficiently. The Art of Communication tells you to identify your emotions first. Different people have completely different recognition of emotions, and people with low perception have only a few kinds of emotions, such as happiness, sadness, and anger. In fact, there are many kinds of emotions. The book lists 132 words related to emotions.
# After 116 have a clear understanding of their emotions, the next step is to share them with others. Express your current feelings reasonably so that the other party can understand your feelings, instead of facing a sudden accusation inexplicably. In addition to sharing emotions, we also have to choose a reasonable time to express our emotions. The moment of anger is not the best time to speak. What we say is angry words, which hurt our feelings and fail to achieve our goal. The real thing is to sit down and talk about your feelings when both parties are emotionally stable.
Finally, people have to learn to be responsible for their emotions. A lot of times, it's not the thing that makes us so angry, it's the perception of it that makes us so angry. You can tell people around you that this is my bottom line. Don't touch it easily. When strangers accidentally cross the line, we should also learn to control ourselves and tell ourselves "is fine, but irrelevant people accidentally offend, I can handle my emotions " .
Third, after communication, be good at responding and ending. Everyone is eager to get recognition and response from others in communication. As colleagues, friends, and partners, we recognize and support each other's views without hesitation. Timely appreciation, praise and encouragement are the best feedback for them, which not only makes him more willing to communicate, but also makes the relationship more harmonious. The book mentions "good communication comes from the other person's enthusiastic response " , imagine, if you greet someone warmly, and the only thing you get back is to turn a blind eye or careless feedback, would you want to continue communicating with that person? No one is willing to pay for your indifference, and no one is born with respect and enthusiasm for you.
When communicating with people, it is more important to end the conversation politely. First of all, you can't show impatience, you can't look around and keep looking at your watch. Secondly, we should explain the reason to the other party and make it clear that we have other things to deal with. The other party will certainly understand. When explaining, be sure to apologize, smile and shake hands with each other. You can also end the conversation with a tactful hint or some technique, such as asking someone to call yourself, it feels like something happened suddenly. In fact, it is very likely that the other party also wants to end the dialogue. At this time, instead of being impolite, the other party will thank you. Through some small movements and micro expressions, we can see the other party's thoughts. If the other party looks at the door, or keeps looking at the time, or the direction of his toes is pointing to the door, it means that he wants to end the conversation. If their eyes are erratic and their hands touch their noses, it means that they are impatient. It is okay to put an end to these situations.
After reading this book, I told myself that I would cherish the person who is willing to listen to me quietly and not in a hurry to interrupt. It must be someone who cares about me very much to endure my chattering for so long. The second is to prepare to reduce the number of times you speak and listen more to what others say. You will be able to get more information from other people's words. This information may become another kind of unexpected joy.
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Daye Jianfeng Jinshan limestone mine is included in the national green mine list.
On January 11, the Ministry of Natural Resources issued an announcement announcing the list of mines that were included in the national list of green mines in 2020, with the Jinshan limestone mine of Daye Peak Cement Company among them. The final result of the green mine selection is in accordance with the requirements of the notice of the general office of the Ministry of natural resources on doing a good job in the selection of green mines in 2020 (natural resources office letter [2020] No. 839), on the basis of enterprise self-evaluation, third-party evaluation, provincial verification and recommendation, after examination and social publicity. In 2020, a total of 301 mines were selected and included in the national green mine list, subject to social supervision. Green mine refers to the implementation of scientific and orderly mining in the whole process of mineral resources development, the control of the disturbance of the mining area and the surrounding ecological environment within a controllable range, and the realization of environmental ecology, scientific mining methods, efficient resource utilization, and management Information digitization and mining area community harmony of the mine. In order to meet the selection criteria of national green mines, we must carry out the work from two categories and nine aspects, namely, the comprehensive utilization of resources, technological innovation, energy conservation and emission reduction led by the technical strength of mining enterprises, and the operation of mines according to law, standardized management, environmental protection, land reclamation, community harmony, corporate culture and so on. These requirements fully reflect the development concepts advocated by the current state, such as people-oriented, harmonious development of society and environment, and sustainable development. Jinshan limestone mine is a limestone raw material mine supporting Daye peak production line, about 1km away from the plant. Since it was put into operation, Jinshan limestone mine has been carrying out ore mining according to law. With the deepening of the establishment of green mines, Daye Peak, based on the principle of "mining while managing", has made orderly progress in the work of mine greening, dust control and information-based intelligent mine construction. It has successively built a centralized management and control platform for mine automation, integrating automatic control system, remote monitoring system, reserve management system and various monitoring systems, basically realizing the automation of fixed facilities and unattended operation. Harden the roads in mining areas; tens of millions of yuan have been invested in the restoration and management of the geological environment, planting more than 20000 camphor trees, Luan Shu and other seedlings, more than 2000 square meters of Parthenocissus creeper, laying more than 26000 square meters of lawns, and spraying more than 60000 square meters of guest soil. The forest land in some areas that will not be mined within 5 years has been restored, and the overall look of the mining area is new, which fully embodies the green mine development concept of "innovation, green, green. (this newspaper reporter)
2021
01-21
A few days ago, daye peak cement company donated 100000 yuan to daye city charity association as a poverty alleviation fund. A group of agents in Hubei province of peak cement visited left-behind children and families of poor students in Gulin town, where Huang ping peak cement company is located, and formed a helping pair with 8 poor students. Spike poverty alleviation and aid to write a new page. Jianfeng has always had a tradition of helping the poor and helping students. In addition to donating eight hope primary schools in Jinhua, Tibet, Xinjiang, Gansu, Yunnan and other places, individual or collective employees also subsidize poor students to complete their studies through fixed-point pairing and participation in the hope project. From the beginning of its establishment, Daye Jianfeng's employees have spontaneously contributed personal funds to pair with local poor students to provide help to students in need; in recent years, they have also helped children from poor employees' families complete their studies through "Golden Autumn Aid" and other channels. At the simple donation ceremony of the student aid fund held by Daye Peak, Zhang Fengliang, deputy general manager of the group company and general manager of Daye Peak, said that helping poor students realize their dreams of studying and dedicating a love to Daye's education is Daye The unshirkable responsibility of the peak people is the responsibility of the enterprise. As a key enterprise in Daye City, Daye Peak has been fulfilling its social responsibilities with practical actions while developing, and will continue to support and participate in this meaningful work that benefits the country and the people in the future. Ke Lingxiao, deputy secretary-general of the Daye Chu Chamber of Commerce and director of the Party Committee Office, attended the donation ceremony. Yang Jianxiong, the relevant person in charge of the Daye Charity Federation, accepted donations on behalf of the Charity Federation. In mid-December 2020, a group of agents from Peak Cement Hubei went to Gulin Town, Huangping County, Guizhou Province, to have a discussion with the leaders in charge of education in Gulin Town and the principals of some schools in the area to learn about the local education work. In order to have a closer understanding of the life and study of poor students, they also went deep into the local mountainous areas to visit left-behind children and poor students. An agent said: "The peak has given us this platform, our career development today is closely related to the peak, in a way, we are also 'peak man'. It is a very meaningful thing to go to Guizhou to experience the new factory style of Huangping Peak, to send warmth to the local poor children and to show the love of Peak agents." After on-the-spot visits, eight children were finally identified as the objects of assistance, some of which were orphans, some were single-parent families, and some of the parents suffered from major diseases that led to family poverty. In the future, peak agents will help these children in their lives and studies, so that they can complete their studies in peace of mind. (Zhu Yong and Lu Meiyan)
2021
01-11
Peak Metro Special Communication Cable Patented
On December 11, the cable company's subway special communication cable utility model patent authorization announcement, this is the cable company's fourth new utility model patent this year. Metro special communication cable is a kind of special cable which is optimized and improved on the basis of traditional urban communication cable. In order to meet the requirements of the subway environment and users, the cable company studies the longitudinal waterproof, radial waterproof and high flame retardant performance of the cable. In terms of longitudinal waterproofing, the traditional use of hot oil paste is changed to cold oil paste, and an automatic oil filling device is made, which not only simplifies the structure of the filling equipment, reduces the investment cost and floor area of the equipment, but also has simple filling process, easy operation and control, stable product quality, energy consumption saving, production cost reduction, no paste dripping during filling, and clean and pollution-free production site. The ointment filling process is not affected by temperature changes, and there is no insulation layer scald, paste dripping and cracking. Radial waterproofing adopts special hot melt adhesive technology that can bond metals, so that the joints of aluminum strips are tightly bonded and the radial waterproofing is more thorough, thus solving the problems of unround appearance of sheath, depression or flounces, poor sealing performance, affecting the waterproof performance of cables, etc. caused by the original heating technology of hot air gun. At the same time, in terms of high flame retardancy, the material of the outer sheath is improved, and the environmentally friendly flame retardant low-smoke halogen-free material is adopted, so that the product meets the environmental protection and fire safety requirements of the current key projects. With the increase of domestic subway projects, the use of subway special communication cables is also increasing. The acquisition of this patent has a certain effect on cable companies to expand their market influence and increase sales. (lu chao-fang)
2021
01-04
Huang Ping Peak "Try" to "Quasi"
On December 23, Guizhou Huangping Jianfeng Cement Company obtained the national industrial product production license. According to the relevant policies and regulations, the products produced by the enterprise meet the national standards, have applied for the national industrial product production license procedures, and have been accepted and filed by the relevant competent departments. During the period of waiting for the license to be issued, the trial production products can be sold, but the words "trial products" must be printed on the packaging bag. Due to the outbreak of the new coronary pneumonia epidemic at the beginning of the year, the construction of the Huangping peak project and the handling of production licenses and other related work have been affected to some extent. After the initial relief of the epidemic in May, Huang Ping peak in the intensified construction at the same time, but also began to carry out the production license processing. Due to the differences in the understanding of the relevant requirements and standards by the local competent departments, the relevant departments of Huang Ping Jianfeng worked together to deeply understand the local policy requirements and actively communicate with the administrative departments, and finally completed the work. Although trial products and formal products are subject to the same quality management standards, in actual marketing, user acceptance is often "discounted". The relevant person in charge of Huang Ping Jianfeng said that with this "birth permit", it means that the product has been officially affirmed and licensed by the state. As a new force in Southeast Guizhou, Jianfeng cement can truly participate in the market competition at the same level as the original local similar products, which will play a positive role in promoting the follow-up production and sales work. (Zhu Yong)
2021
01-04
On the afternoon of December 19, Wu Jin, deputy secretary of Huangshi municipal Party committee and mayor, Wang Gang, Secretary of Daye municipal Party committee, and Wang Ding, mayor of Daye City, visited Daye Jianfeng cement company for investigation. Wu Jin proposed that Daye Peak, as a key industrial enterprise in Daye City, should strengthen its advantages and make up for its shortcomings under the leadership of the Daye City Government, and strive to be the main engine and pioneer demonstration of the city's transformation and upgrading and high-quality development. Accompanied by Yuan Xianming, executive deputy general manager of Daye Peak, and Tao Yesheng, deputy general manager, Wu Jin and his entourage visited the production site of Daye Peak, spoke highly of the site management level of Daye Peak, and carefully inquired about the production and operation situation in 2020 and the future medium-and long-term development plan. Prior to this, the Huangshi Municipal CPC Committee held the second Plenary session of the 13th CPC Central Committee, planning to formulate the 14th five-year Plan and build a regional development layout system of "one heart, two belts, multi-point support, and global development." Wu Jin stressed in his investigation that he hoped Daye would seize the favorable opportunity of the "14th five-year Plan" building materials industry, actively respond to the government's industrial construction transformation plan, and make positive contributions to the reconstruction of Huangshi industry. (Xu Ying, Wang Yiyan)
2021
01-04
Another batch of old employees retired
On the morning of December 25, the group company held a farewell party for retired employees in 2020. Jiang Xiaomeng, secretary of the party committee and chairman of the group company, Qin Xuping, chairman of the trade union of the group company, and more than 20 retired old employees gathered together to share their work feelings and talk about their future life. Qin Xuping briefly reviewed the development history of Jianfeng Group over the past 60 years, thanked the retired employees and wished them good health and a happy life. He said that Jianfeng Group's achievements embody the wisdom, strength and painstaking efforts of the old comrades, and Jianfeng Group will not forget their contributions. I also hope that the old employees will not retreat and continue to pay attention to supporting peak development. Old employees are also actively speaking, talk about life planning after retirement. Jiang Xiaomeng introduced to the retired employees the company's current overall operation, the latest progress of the cement and pharmaceutical sector, and the industrial layout in various places. I hope the trade union will strengthen the service awareness of retired employees and do a good job in logistics services. I hope that the old employees will keep in touch with the company, communicate more, make more suggestions and suggestions, and thank the retired employees for their hard work over the years and their dedication and support to Jianfeng Group. (Reporter Chen Shengmu)
2021
01-04