Learn to empathy
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2021-03-01
went shopping at Wal-Mart during the holiday, because there was a long line when there were too many people paying the bill, and it also caused a customer to quarrel with the cashier. Let me think of the importance of empathy.
The thing is like this. First, an old lady bought some vegetables and daily necessities. When it was her turn to pay the bill, she slowly found cash from her pocket. The cashier did not have enough change and had to exchange money with colleagues at the adjacent counter. In this way, it took almost seven or eight minutes for one person to pay the bill. Then the customer's family swiped the credit card when they paid the bill. First, the password was wrong and they had to be swiped again. Then they finally lost the password. POS machine ran out of paper again. ... It is estimated that the cashier is a novice. Although he found the fax paper, he couldn't put it in. He was so anxious that he had to ask his colleagues for help.
finally completed the credit card transaction and signature. At this time, the next customer (let's call it Mr. M ), who was already impatient, started complaining, saying "TMD " in a dialect, "TMD has never seen any shopping mall cashier so slow " , and blamed the cashier girl for saying whether "is a novice and not familiar with the business? If you are not familiar with it, you can take up your post after training " . He used dirty words so much that the little girl at the cashier was already angry, and the conflict intensified completely. The quarrel between the two men alarmed the duty manager. Later, after persuasion, the "God "
left with full complaints. The cashier girl was scolded by the manager for arguing with the customer and ordered to write a review.I witnessed the whole process in the back and felt that the little girl was very wronged. During the long vacation, promotional activities are carried out everywhere. There are many people in supermarkets and shopping malls, which is naturally reasonable. The long queue shows that customers like to shop here, and the goods are cost-effective. So many people are waiting patiently. Why do you complain or even swear at Mr. M
? I think it's because he doesn't know how to think in other places.empathy is to put yourself in the other person's shoes and think from the other person's standpoint. Only when you think about the problem from the other side's standpoint can you understand the other side, thus those complaints and dissatisfaction will be relieved immediately. Just like this Mr. M
, where he quarrels and scolds people, he does not actually make things go in a good direction (such as improving the efficiency of the cashier), but rather makes people feel that there is something wrong with his quality and measurement. Two people quarrel, it should be said that there is no winner.In life and work, if you can understand empathy, you will be able to get along with others better, work better and live happily. As the saying goes: take a step back. In fact, this is the same truth, why not do it? I think if we all know how to think in other places and everyone is more tolerant, then families, units, organizations, business cooperation and trade can be more harmonious.
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