The way of love is more important than love itself
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2020-07-22
The way of love is more important than love itself
Stay at home during the Spring Festival. I watched "Lost Mom" carefully. Many plots made me feel familiar. It triggered my further thinking about the relationship between mother and child (female). The mother of Xu Yiwan, the protagonist in
, has a strong desire for control. She seems to control everything about her children. Only then does she feel that she is doing her duty as a mother. She felt that she loved her children warmly, but she never thought about whether what she wanted to give to others was what they liked. There is a widely circulated joke on the Internet, "There is a kind of cold that makes your mother think you are cold", which is about this kind of maternal love: when autumn comes, children don't feel cold because they are young and in good health, but mothers don't think from the perspective of children, because they feel cold and have to wear long johns, so they force their children to wear long johns too. She thinks it's all for the kids. This has caused the child's disgust and resistance, because such "love" is not what the child needs.
The ways and means of love are more important than love itself.
Almost everyone will be controlled by their parents when they grow up, but some control and discipline based on their parents' own ideas will not make the child better, but suppress the child's talent and creativity. In particular, some parents still "listen to politics" and give orders in the name of love after their children have grown up or even got married, causing a series of family conflicts and problems, and even the breakdown of their children's marriage. In the film, Xu Yiwan, faced with too much interference and control of his mother, finally couldn't bear to say what he had been holding in his heart for many years: "In your eyes (I), everything is a problem, my marriage is a problem, my body is a problem, whether I answer the phone or not, whether I have children is a problem..." The mother was shocked. It turned out that the well-behaved son suddenly disappeared, and she accused and roared at herself, so she quietly left her son with a wounded heart. Xu Yiwan had to look for and catch up with his mother all the way. After a close escape, the mother and son could finally open their hearts calmly. With a deep communication, the heart knot over the years was finally opened.
Therefore, whether we love our children or when we love our loved ones, we must pay attention to the ways and means and think about whether the ways and means of expressing our love are appropriate and appropriate for the other party. Remember, no matter how sincere love and care are, if they are excessive, they will also cause harm to others. (Shenyang)
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"We were also praised by the traffic police." On September 26, when talking about the civilized travel volunteer activities a few days ago, Li Xuegen of the big pharmacy smiled and was very happy that his work was recognized. Starting from May this year, during the rush hour on the 5th and 20th of each month (weekends and holidays are postponed), there will be a group of volunteers wearing red vests and hats, holding signs with the words "courtesy of zebra crossing, civilized crossing of the road" to divert traffic at many intersections in the city. This is a civilized travel volunteer service activity carried out by Jinhua City to further promote civilized travel and persuade uncivilized behavior. As a civilized unit at the municipal level in Jinhua, Jianfeng Group's duty junction is at the intersection of Bayi North Street and Zhongshan West Road. Before the activity was carried out, as the organizer of the group company, the group office had deep concerns. The activity took a long time and required a lot of manpower. As an enterprise, under the condition of ensuring normal production, it was completed by employees in their spare time. Can it be continued? To this end, Xiang Chongping, the leader in charge of the group company, specially organized a meeting of the directors of the subordinate enterprise offices to mobilize and deploy the matter. The group office also specially established the QQ group of "Peak Civilized Travel Volunteer Service" to release the contents and arrangements of the activities, update the duty situation, and praise the small partners on duty. At the beginning of the activity, colleagues in the headquarters building took the lead in taking up their posts. The first class was Li Hong, Li Xia, Yang Liu and Lei Yuan of the finance department of the group company. Employees of the group office, the peak health experience hall, Qiubin Factory and the international trading company also took up their posts one after another. Other enterprises also took part in an orderly manner according to the duty schedule.
2020
07-31
"We were also praised by the traffic police." On September 26, when talking about the civilized travel volunteer activities a few days ago, Li Xuegen of the big pharmacy smiled and was very happy that his work was recognized. Starting from May this year, during the rush hour on the 5th and 20th of each month (weekends and holidays are postponed), there will be a group of volunteers wearing red vests and hats, holding signs with the words "courtesy of zebra crossing, civilized crossing of the road" to divert traffic at many intersections in the city. This is a civilized travel volunteer service activity carried out by Jinhua City to further promote civilized travel and persuade uncivilized behavior. As a civilized unit at the municipal level in Jinhua, Jianfeng Group's duty junction is at the intersection of Bayi North Street and Zhongshan West Road. Before the activity was carried out, as the organizer of the group company, the group office had deep concerns. The activity took a long time and required a lot of manpower. As an enterprise, under the condition of ensuring normal production, it was completed by employees in their spare time. Can it be continued? To this end, Xiang Chongping, the leader in charge of the group company, specially organized a meeting of the directors of the subordinate enterprise offices to mobilize and deploy the matter. The group office also specially established the QQ group of "Peak Civilized Travel Volunteer Service" to release the contents and arrangements of the activities, update the duty situation, and praise the small partners on duty. At the beginning of the activity, colleagues in the headquarters building took the lead in taking up their posts. The first class was Li Hong, Li Xia, Yang Liu and Lei Yuan of the finance department of the group company. Employees of the group office, the peak health experience hall, Qiubin Factory and the international trading company also took up their posts one after another. Other enterprises also took part in an orderly manner according to the duty schedule.
2020
07-30
The company's two projects received financial subsidies for the integration of the two.
Recently, according to the requirements of relevant documents of the municipal government, the municipal economic and information Commission and the municipal finance bureau, the two projects of the group company's "human resources management system" and the "automation project of traditional Chinese medicine extraction workshop" of the peak health technology company passed the review and obtained the financial subsidy funds for the integration of the two in Jinhua city in 2016. The "Human Resources Management System" project of the group company will be implemented from July 2015 to January 2016. The project includes functional modules such as organizational structure management, employee information management, contract management, salary management, welfare management, report management, etc. The information platform of human resource management has been set up in the whole group, and nearly 3000 employees of the whole group have been included in this system, which has changed the stand-alone version mode of the previous personnel management system. It is easy to use and has easy expansibility, which can not only meet the current management requirements of the enterprise, it can also adapt to the needs of future enterprise development and changes, and the design of the system architecture can improve the efficiency of database operation and security management, data concentration and distribution processing. The "Automation Project of Traditional Chinese Medicine Extraction Workshop" project of Jianfeng Health combines the current situation and development requirements of the enterprise, taking the construction of the project with an annual output of 1000 tons of Chinese herbal pieces and 1000 tons of plant extraction as an opportunity to deeply study the production process, and gradually establish a unified, comprehensive, integrated and real-time shared management information platform through systematic planning, gradual promotion, continuous improvement and perfection. Compared with the traditional production process, the project reduces the interference of human factors, improves the on-site operating environment, saves labor costs to a certain extent, and improves the utilization rate of raw materials, energy and equipment.
2020
07-31
Daye peak won the title of "best integrity enterprise"
On September 4, daye city held a grand commendation meeting, daye peak cement company as the "best integrity enterprise" was commended. This is also the first time that Daye City has selected and commended the "Best Integrity Enterprise". In order to commend the advanced, promote righteousness, establish models, give full play to the role of demonstration and leadership, further encourage and stimulate the enthusiasm of enterprises and employees, unswervingly strengthen the construction of spiritual civilization and credit system in Daye City, and promote the economy of local enterprises. Good and fast development. The Daye City Federation of Trade Unions and the Office of the Spiritual Civilization Construction Committee initiated the selection and recognition of the best honest enterprises, the best honest teams, and the most beautiful honest employees throughout the city. After recommendation, review, evaluation, and publicity procedures, a total of 10 "best integrity enterprises", 10 "best integrity teams", and 20 "most beautiful integrity employees" in Daye City were selected. At the commendation meeting on September 4, Xu Yilong, member of the standing Committee of the Daye Municipal CPC Committee, minister of the United Front work, and chairman of the Municipal Federation of Trade unions, spoke highly of the scientific management and honest operation of Daye Jianfeng cement Company in recent years. I hope Daye Jianfeng can cherish the honor, give full play to its exemplary and leading role, forge ahead, and achieve better results. Xu Yilong also asked the city's enterprises, teams and employees to follow the example of award-winning units and individuals, further emancipate their minds, change their production and management concepts, establish a career with integrity, be honest, and make new contributions to serving the economic development of Daye City. (Zhu Yong)
2020
07-30
Daye peak won the title of "best integrity enterprise"
On September 4, daye city held a grand commendation meeting, daye peak cement company as the "best integrity enterprise" was commended. This is also the first time that Daye City has selected and commended the "Best Integrity Enterprise". In order to commend the advanced, promote righteousness, establish models, give full play to the role of demonstration and leadership, further encourage and stimulate the enthusiasm of enterprises and employees, unswervingly strengthen the construction of spiritual civilization and credit system in Daye City, and promote the economy of local enterprises. Good and fast development. The Daye City Federation of Trade Unions and the Office of the Spiritual Civilization Construction Committee initiated the selection and recognition of the best honest enterprises, the best honest teams, and the most beautiful honest employees throughout the city. After recommendation, review, evaluation, and publicity procedures, a total of 10 "best integrity enterprises", 10 "best integrity teams", and 20 "most beautiful integrity employees" in Daye City were selected. At the commendation meeting on September 4, Xu Yilong, member of the standing Committee of the Daye Municipal CPC Committee, minister of the United Front work, and chairman of the Municipal Federation of Trade unions, spoke highly of the scientific management and honest operation of Daye Jianfeng cement Company in recent years. I hope Daye Jianfeng can cherish the honor, give full play to its exemplary and leading role, forge ahead, and achieve better results. Xu Yilong also asked the city's enterprises, teams and employees to follow the example of award-winning units and individuals, further emancipate their minds, change their production and management concepts, establish a career with integrity, be honest, and make new contributions to serving the economic development of Daye City. (Zhu Yong)
2020
07-31
Daye peak won the title of "best integrity enterprise"
On September 4, daye city held a grand commendation meeting, daye peak cement company as the "best integrity enterprise" was commended. This is also the first time that Daye City has selected and commended the "Best Integrity Enterprise". In order to commend the advanced, promote righteousness, establish models, give full play to the role of demonstration and leadership, further encourage and stimulate the enthusiasm of enterprises and employees, unswervingly strengthen the construction of spiritual civilization and credit system in Daye City, and promote the economy of local enterprises. Good and fast development. The Daye City Federation of Trade Unions and the Office of the Spiritual Civilization Construction Committee initiated the selection and recognition of the best honest enterprises, the best honest teams, and the most beautiful honest employees throughout the city. After recommendation, review, evaluation, and publicity procedures, a total of 10 "best integrity enterprises", 10 "best integrity teams", and 20 "most beautiful integrity employees" in Daye City were selected. At the commendation meeting on September 4, Xu Yilong, member of the standing Committee of the Daye Municipal CPC Committee, minister of the United Front work, and chairman of the Municipal Federation of Trade unions, spoke highly of the scientific management and honest operation of Daye Jianfeng cement Company in recent years. I hope Daye Jianfeng can cherish the honor, give full play to its exemplary and leading role, forge ahead, and achieve better results. Xu Yilong also asked the city's enterprises, teams and employees to follow the example of award-winning units and individuals, further emancipate their minds, change their production and management concepts, establish a career with integrity, be honest, and make new contributions to serving the economic development of Daye City. (Zhu Yong)
2020
07-31
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