The way of love is more important than love itself
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2020-07-22
The way of love is more important than love itself
Stay at home during the Spring Festival. I watched "Lost Mom" carefully. Many plots made me feel familiar. It triggered my further thinking about the relationship between mother and child (female). The mother of Xu Yiwan, the protagonist in
, has a strong desire for control. She seems to control everything about her children. Only then does she feel that she is doing her duty as a mother. She felt that she loved her children warmly, but she never thought about whether what she wanted to give to others was what they liked. There is a widely circulated joke on the Internet, "There is a kind of cold that makes your mother think you are cold", which is about this kind of maternal love: when autumn comes, children don't feel cold because they are young and in good health, but mothers don't think from the perspective of children, because they feel cold and have to wear long johns, so they force their children to wear long johns too. She thinks it's all for the kids. This has caused the child's disgust and resistance, because such "love" is not what the child needs.
The ways and means of love are more important than love itself.
Almost everyone will be controlled by their parents when they grow up, but some control and discipline based on their parents' own ideas will not make the child better, but suppress the child's talent and creativity. In particular, some parents still "listen to politics" and give orders in the name of love after their children have grown up or even got married, causing a series of family conflicts and problems, and even the breakdown of their children's marriage. In the film, Xu Yiwan, faced with too much interference and control of his mother, finally couldn't bear to say what he had been holding in his heart for many years: "In your eyes (I), everything is a problem, my marriage is a problem, my body is a problem, whether I answer the phone or not, whether I have children is a problem..." The mother was shocked. It turned out that the well-behaved son suddenly disappeared, and she accused and roared at herself, so she quietly left her son with a wounded heart. Xu Yiwan had to look for and catch up with his mother all the way. After a close escape, the mother and son could finally open their hearts calmly. With a deep communication, the heart knot over the years was finally opened.
Therefore, whether we love our children or when we love our loved ones, we must pay attention to the ways and means and think about whether the ways and means of expressing our love are appropriate and appropriate for the other party. Remember, no matter how sincere love and care are, if they are excessive, they will also cause harm to others. (Shenyang)
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End of 2016 Qualification Review
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2020
07-31
Yunnan peak through the safety standard secondary acceptance
On March 21, Yunnan Jianfeng Cement Company successfully passed the evaluation and acceptance of secondary enterprises for safety production standardization. On the same day, a review team composed of leaders of the Yunnan Provincial Work Safety Supervision Bureau and relevant experts reviewed the implementation of the establishment of Yunnan Jianfeng safety production standardization secondary enterprises. According to the 13 elements involved in the "Standard for Assessment and Rating of Safety Production Standardization in Cement Enterprises", the review team conducted strict assessment and scoring item by item through grouping to check the site and review the data, and finally determined that Yunnan Peak passed the standard acceptance of safety standardization secondary enterprises. Yunnan Jianfeng has always attached great importance to safety production. After passing the three-level safety standard enterprise review in 2015, in order to raise the level of enterprise safety management to a new level, in 2016, it began to create secondary safety standardization. Over the past year, Yunnan Jianfeng has insisted on taking the creation of secondary safety standards as the top priority of production and operation management, and has formulated an implementation plan for production safety standardization in accordance with the requirements of national standardization norms. the content covers production safety responsibility system, education and training, safety inspection, safety facilities management and other safety production management standards, systems and post safety operation procedures, while further strengthening daily safety inspection and regularly organizing emergency plan drills, strengthen the investigation and rectification of potential safety hazards and the supervision of important hazard sources, and further consolidate the foundation of enterprise safety production management. After the review, Zhou Jiping, general manager of Yunnan Jianfeng, said that Yunnan Jianfeng will take this standard as a new starting point. On the basis of consolidating the accident-free achievements in production safety for two consecutive years, it will conscientiously implement the main responsibility of production safety and cultivate
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