The way of love is more important than love itself
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2020-07-22
The way of love is more important than love itself
Stay at home during the Spring Festival. I watched "Lost Mom" carefully. Many plots made me feel familiar. It triggered my further thinking about the relationship between mother and child (female). The mother of Xu Yiwan, the protagonist in
, has a strong desire for control. She seems to control everything about her children. Only then does she feel that she is doing her duty as a mother. She felt that she loved her children warmly, but she never thought about whether what she wanted to give to others was what they liked. There is a widely circulated joke on the Internet, "There is a kind of cold that makes your mother think you are cold", which is about this kind of maternal love: when autumn comes, children don't feel cold because they are young and in good health, but mothers don't think from the perspective of children, because they feel cold and have to wear long johns, so they force their children to wear long johns too. She thinks it's all for the kids. This has caused the child's disgust and resistance, because such "love" is not what the child needs.
The ways and means of love are more important than love itself.
Almost everyone will be controlled by their parents when they grow up, but some control and discipline based on their parents' own ideas will not make the child better, but suppress the child's talent and creativity. In particular, some parents still "listen to politics" and give orders in the name of love after their children have grown up or even married, causing a series of family conflicts and problems, and even the breakdown of their children's marriage. In the film, Xu Yiwan, faced with too much interference and control of his mother, finally couldn't bear to say what he had been holding in his heart for many years: "In your eyes (I) everything is a problem, my marriage is a problem, my body is a problem, whether to answer the phone or not to have children is a problem..." The mother was shocked when she heard that the well-behaved son suddenly disappeared, and she accused and roared at herself, so she quietly left her son with a wounded heart. Xu Yiwan had to look for and catch up with his mother all the way. After a close escape, the mother and son could finally open their hearts calmly. With a deep communication, the heart knot over the years was finally opened.
Therefore, whether we love our children or when we love our loved ones, we must pay attention to the ways and means and think about whether the ways and means of expressing our love are appropriate and appropriate for the other party. Remember, no matter how sincere love and care are, if they are excessive, they will also cause harm to others. (Shenyang)
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2020
07-31
Daye Peak Declared 4 Invention Patents Last Year
In 2019, Daye Jianfeng Cement Company changed its thinking, actively explored and tested the use of new materials, and summarized the research results in a timely manner, and successively declared 4 invention patents. In the production process of low-alkali cement, Daye Peak changed the traditional scheme of using high-grade sandstone ingredients alone to replace part of the sandstone and part of the iron correction material with iron ore waste soil, which not only controlled the alkali content in the clinker, but also increased the Al2O3 content in the clinker, ensuring the easy burnability and high early strength of the clinker. Innovation has also been made in the raw material batching scheme, breaking the original high-grade and low-grade sandstones used together and changing them to separate batching of high-grade and low-grade sandstones respectively, thus avoiding the disadvantage of easy material segregation in the process of high-grade and low-grade sandstones used together. At the same time, the original four-component batching is changed to five-component batching, so that low-alkali clinker can be freely switched, which is convenient for production organization and production cost. On the basis of a series of innovative achievements, Daye Peak declared four invention patents in 2019: "a technology for producing clinker from gas sludge and dust collection in steel mills", "a method for treating sludge in machine-made sand mills", "an improvement in raw material batching method" and "a technology for producing low cement from iron ore mining waste soil", all of which have high practical value. (Fan Liangwu)
2020
07-31
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2020
07-31
City Red Cross thanks spike help "anti-epidemic"
On February 26, Jinhua City Red Cross Party Secretary, Executive Vice President Shi Yiwei and his entourage to visit the peak, the peak in the prevention and control of the new coronary pneumonia epidemic actively contribute to love, brave social responsibility of the great love and kindness to express gratitude. Jiang Xiaomeng, chairman of the group company, Huang Jinlong, deputy general manager of the group company and general manager of the pharmaceutical company, and Xiang Chongping, deputy general manager of the group company, had a discussion with Vice President Shi Yiwei and his party. In order to solve the difficult problems for caring enterprises to resume work and production, the Municipal Red Cross Society, based on its own functional positioning and giving full play to its unique advantages, conducted a large feedback and return visit to caring enterprises, and jointly established three Red Cross volunteer service teams, including traditional Chinese medicine service, psychological assistance, and emergency rescue training, to take "eight measures" to help caring enterprises resume work and production. Vice President Shi Yiwei led the backbone of three volunteer service teams to the peak for a return visit, expressing his gratitude for the contribution made by the peak in the prevention and control of the new coronary pneumonia epidemic, and sent a letter of thanks and the "New Coronary Pneumonia Prevention and Control Enterprises Resuming Work and Resuming Production Protection Manual". Chairman Jiang Xiaomeng introduced the industrial layout, production and operation of the peak, focusing on the resumption of work and production of the peak enterprises, and put forward opinions and suggestions on the reduction and exemption of basic electricity charges for enterprises, the support policies for small and medium-sized enterprises, and the payment of "five insurance and one fund. (Reporter Ni Yingzhen)
2020
07-30
City Red Cross thanks spike help "anti-epidemic"
On February 26, Jinhua City Red Cross Party Secretary, Executive Vice President Shi Yiwei and his entourage to visit the peak, the peak in the prevention and control of the new coronary pneumonia epidemic actively contribute to love, brave social responsibility of the great love and kindness to express gratitude. Jiang Xiaomeng, chairman of the group company, Huang Jinlong, deputy general manager of the group company and general manager of the pharmaceutical company, and Xiang Chongping, deputy general manager of the group company, had a discussion with Vice President Shi Yiwei and his party. In order to solve the difficult problems for caring enterprises to resume work and production, the Municipal Red Cross Society, based on its own functional positioning and giving full play to its unique advantages, conducted a large feedback and return visit to caring enterprises, and jointly established three Red Cross volunteer service teams, including traditional Chinese medicine service, psychological assistance, and emergency rescue training, to take "eight measures" to help caring enterprises resume work and production. Vice President Shi Yiwei led the backbone of three volunteer service teams to the peak for a return visit, expressing his gratitude for the contribution made by the peak in the prevention and control of the new coronary pneumonia epidemic, and sent a letter of thanks and the "New Coronary Pneumonia Prevention and Control Enterprises Resuming Work and Resuming Production Protection Manual". Chairman Jiang Xiaomeng introduced the industrial layout, production and operation of the peak, focusing on the resumption of work and production of the peak enterprises, and put forward opinions and suggestions on the reduction and exemption of basic electricity charges for enterprises, the support policies for small and medium-sized enterprises, and the payment of "five insurance and one fund. (Reporter Ni Yingzhen)
2020
07-31
City Red Cross thanks spike help "anti-epidemic"
On February 26, Jinhua City Red Cross Party Secretary, Executive Vice President Shi Yiwei and his entourage to visit the peak, the peak in the prevention and control of the new coronary pneumonia epidemic actively contribute to love, brave social responsibility of the great love and kindness to express gratitude. Jiang Xiaomeng, chairman of the group company, Huang Jinlong, deputy general manager of the group company and general manager of the pharmaceutical company, and Xiang Chongping, deputy general manager of the group company, had a discussion with Vice President Shi Yiwei and his party. In order to solve the difficult problems for caring enterprises to resume work and production, the Municipal Red Cross Society, based on its own functional positioning and giving full play to its unique advantages, conducted a large feedback and return visit to caring enterprises, and jointly established three Red Cross volunteer service teams, including traditional Chinese medicine service, psychological assistance, and emergency rescue training, to take "eight measures" to help caring enterprises resume work and production. Vice President Shi Yiwei led the backbone of three volunteer service teams to the peak for a return visit, expressing his gratitude for the contribution made by the peak in the prevention and control of the new coronary pneumonia epidemic, and sent a letter of thanks and the "New Coronary Pneumonia Prevention and Control Enterprises Resuming Work and Resuming Production Protection Manual". Chairman Jiang Xiaomeng introduced the industrial layout, production and operation of the peak, focusing on the resumption of work and production of the peak enterprises, and put forward opinions and suggestions on the reduction and exemption of basic electricity charges for enterprises, the support policies for small and medium-sized enterprises, and the payment of "five insurance and one fund. (Reporter Ni Yingzhen)
2020
07-31
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