News Center

Home page

Peak Report

News reports

Another Year of the Seven Year Itch

Release time:

2023-04-12

This topic originated from a recent gathering with girlfriends.

While chatting, she suddenly asked, "Do you think there really is a seven-year itch between husband and wife?" I asked, "What exactly does the seven-year itch mean?" She explained that after seven years of marriage, the passion in the relationship between husband and wife has long faded and turned into family affection, which has long lost its original freshness. I thought for a moment. Now I have been married for seven plus one, a total of eight years. Although Mr. K is not as hot as he was at the beginning, he still loves me. It seems that there is no such stage.

and Mr. K have known each other for more than ten years and have been married for eight years. For such a long time, there must be some twists and turns. My parents did not agree with our marriage, because Mr. K's parents had no financial income and were worried that I would work too hard. But now their evaluation is that they have not found the wrong person, can bear hardships, can make money, care about their parents and love their wives.

In the first two years of marriage, because he wanted to make more money, Mr. K chose to work in other places. Basically, he could only come back once a month. I took care of the big and small things at home and the elderly when they were sick. In order to avoid his worry, I will not tell him if there is no big trouble. After all, distant water cannot save nearby fire. In recent years, the child's grandfather's health has been deteriorating. He has to come back to work. In order to make up for the "difference" in income, he contacted friends to take over some business and worked alone in his spare time on weekends and evenings. He was busy working for countless late nights, and I could only silently make supper for him, and then send my daughter to school early the next day, and then send my son to my mother so that he could sleep a little longer.

Live together, it is inevitable that there will be times when the spatula bumps against the edge of the pot. A few years ago, if there was a conflict, Mr. K would choose a few days of cold war, but now, as soon as he turned around, he should eat and speak, and he would deliberately say a few jokes to make me laugh, as if the awkward thing just now had never happened. Maybe he really thinks I have paid a lot to my family. Since my daughter was born, I have been working, and even I have only two days to change jobs. I know his parents' preferences and will buy what they like to eat. When I realized that his parents wanted to rebuild the old house, I took the initiative to ask him to fulfill the old man's wish. Same with Mr. K. Since he returned to Huangshi to work, every time my parents fell ill, he asked for leave and ran around to seek medical treatment. He was more patient than my brother in the hospital. My parents' range hood is not working well, and there is a problem with the toilet. He replaced all of them. During the Spring Festival, my parents bought more fish and meat than the refrigerator could hold, on the same day, I placed an order in Jingdong to buy a large refrigerator with double doors...

Seven years and a year after I got married, Mr. K said that the transportation to work was inconvenient, and his company's position was in the opposite direction to mine, so he bought my first car. Before that, we had countless quarrels because of driving. I really couldn't control his manual gear. I often turned off at the traffic light intersection. I was anxious when I turned off, and got angry when I was anxious. Probably because of this, he never trusted me to drive alone, so that after buying a new car, he took me to the streets to practice after get off work at night. He also said that this is an automatic transmission, just like a child's toy car. If it is still difficult, I guess I can only customize it. Of course I'm not convinced, isn't it because you always like to chatter around when I'm driving?

The most serious conflict after buying a new car was that I once used the accelerator as a brake and almost had an accident. Mr. K certainly wanted to talk about me, but I felt that I was stepping on the brake. How could I admit my mistake? After a big fight, I left the key and took my son out of the car to take a taxi home. He said good things to coax me to get on the bus and took me to eat delicious food, but I just ignored him. Unexpectedly, the next day, Mr. K suddenly sent a picture of a car, saying that he bought you a second-hand car and drove it first. I don't care about you. I will change to a new car when you are familiar with it, so as not to feel distressed when the new car hits. On the third day, the used car was in place. On the morning of the fourth day, he watched me get on the bus and said, drive carefully alone, I won't disturb you. Hmph! I didn't care about him, so I left with one foot on the accelerator. However, after all, it is the first time for a novice to hit the road, and he is still a little flustered. He has been silently chanting the matters needing attention he taught before. When he came home from work in the evening, he didn't expect him to wait early near the parking lot to help me park, saying, "all of you novices can only drive. if you don't help you, the car will probably cross the road". What a long-winded! I like it, though. Hey hey. Mr.

K is such a hard-mouthed and soft-hearted person. We have gone through eight years together, and we have really never experienced the seven-year itch, nor have we had any special contradictions. We just feel that both of us are slowly fading away from our hostility, becoming mature and better. (Junin)

More information

Jiang Xiaomeng Yunnan Jianfeng Lectures on Party Lessons

In order to implement the requirements of the higher-level party committee secretary to give in-depth party lectures in enterprises, on July 4, Jiang Xiaomeng, secretary of the party committee and chairman of the group company, gave a special lecture on "two studies and one doing" for party members at Yunnan Jianfeng Cement Company. In the lecture, Jiang Xiaomeng started from the background, overall requirements, learning and education content, and main measures of the "two studies and one doing" activities. He hoped that all party members and cadres would understand "awe, gratitude, humility, and decent", and put forward "What should the current enterprise do" and "How should the enterprise go in the future" and other issues. Jiang Xiaomeng analyzed the future development trend of cement and pharmaceutical industries in detail, emphasized the importance of seizing opportunities, and pointed out that with the homogenization of cement industry becoming more and more serious, if we want to take the road of differentiated brand development, the core of competition is to strengthen self management and maximize the cost, so as to improve the competitive advantage. As far as Yunnan Jianfeng is concerned, it is necessary to continuously improve the level of process technology management and increase the hourly output by increasing inspection efforts. Starting from strengthening the control of raw material procurement, the quality and price should be controlled. By strengthening sales management, vigorously develop direct agents, and strive to maximize the profit per ton; By strengthening equipment maintenance, reduce equipment accidents and further reduce the consumption of machine materials; Make good use of people, while constantly tapping talents and cultivating new people, we will gradually control the total number of workers and improve labor productivity. According to the current situation and the company's development strategy, what should the party members of the peak do? Jiang Xiaomeng asked all the party members and cadres of Yunnan peak to play a good vanguard and exemplary role and take the lead in learning new knowledge, new technology and new experience.

2020

07-30

Yunnan Peak Starts Secondary Security Standardization Creation

On June 19, Yunnan Jianfeng cement company held a mobilization meeting to further implement the requirements of the State Council, Yunnan Province, Pu'er City and Simao District Safety Supervision Bureau on carrying out safety production standardization work, and deploy the secondary safety standardization work. At the meeting, Liu Shenghua, deputy general manager of Yunnan Jianfeng, read out the requirements and work arrangements for creating a secondary enterprise for safety production standardization. The representative of Yunnan superstar Safety Technology Service Co., Ltd., the evaluation unit of safety production standardization, explained in detail the relevant knowledge of safety production standardization consultation and evaluation for the participants, and explained the requirements, standards and other elements of safety production standardization work. Zhou Jiping, general manager of Yunnan Jianfeng, mobilized the establishment of secondary safety production standardization at the meeting, requiring all workshops and departments to prepare and report the data before the end of October, and both software and hardware meet the acceptance conditions, so as to complete the bid creation work by the end of the year. Through the mobilization meeting, the responsible persons of Yunnan Jianfeng and superstar companies and relevant personnel had in-depth exchanges, further unified their thinking, and improved Yunnan Jianfeng employees' understanding of safety production standardization. Everyone recognizes that carrying out safety production standardization work is not only to implement the spirit of a series of documents of the party and the country, but also a mandatory requirement of the government for enterprises, and it is also the need for the sustainable and healthy development of enterprises themselves. Through the development of safety production standardization, enterprises can be promoted to establish and improve the safety production responsibility system, improve the safety production management system, standardize the production operation behavior, investigate and control the hidden dangers of accidents, effectively control the sources of danger, make the production equipment and facilities meet the safety standards, and continuously improve

2020

07-31

Yunnan Peak Starts Secondary Security Standardization Creation

2020

07-31

Yunnan Peak Starts Secondary Security Standardization Creation

2020

07-30

The Company shall organize special operation safety management training

What kind of management process is needed for the special operation permit? How to manage the ticket of the special operation permit? What are the contents of the eight kinds of special operations?... On June 17, the safety committee of the group company organized a special lecture on safety production to conduct systematic and comprehensive training on the safety management knowledge of special operations. The trainer invited for this training is Ge Zhengliang, head of EHS (Environmental Environment, Health Health, Safety) of Zhejiang Prodbang Pharmaceutical Co., Ltd. He has many years of experience in enterprise safety production management and is also a well-known safety management expert in Jinhua region. He has participated in the enterprise safety and environmental protection inspection organized by Jinhua Safety Supervision Bureau for many times and has a certain understanding of the situation of major enterprises in the peak. In this lecture, Ge Zhengliang divided into four parts: division of special operation license scope, special operation license management process, special operation license ticket management, and eight major types of special operation contents. Combined with relevant laws and regulations and his own practical experience in safety production management, Ge Zhengliang explained in simple terms eight special operation situations such as hot work, hoisting, high place, temporary power consumption, open circuit, blind plate plugging, restricted space, etc, standardize the licensed business division, approval department, the places to be paid attention to in the approval management of each type of operation, the responsibilities of the relevant approval department, the matters needing attention in on-site operation, the approval process, ticket management and other knowledge, and make a detailed description of the relevant special operation contents according to the working characteristics of peak subordinate enterprises. In addition, he also shared the experience of special operation safety management of Plo Pharmaceutical.

2020

07-31

Yunnan Jianfeng won the honor of "key leading enterprise in Pu'er City"

Recently, Yunnan Jianfeng Cement Company was awarded the honorary title of "2016 Pu'er Key Leading Enterprise" by the Pu'er Municipal Party Committee and Municipal Government. In recent years, according to the requirements of the group company's "three reductions and three improvements", Yunnan Jianfeng has focused on internal management and external market expansion, tried every means to reduce costs in production, timely controlled market trends in sales, and constantly refreshed various business indicators. While striving to create its own brand value, Yunnan Jianfeng always regards giving back to the society and serving local development as its own responsibility and obligation. Since the establishment of the company, Yunnan Jianfeng has actively responded to the government's call to support the construction of poor border areas and provide free cement to some poor people. Support the education construction in border areas and donate funds for students in need. At the same time, it has paid various taxes and fees on time in accordance with the law and has become a major profit and tax producer in Pu'er City for years. It has gradually grown from a new cement enterprise in Pu'er area to a leading enterprise in the cement industry. The honor of "key leading enterprises in Pu'er City in 2016" is the affirmation and recognition of Yunnan Jianfeng's work over the past few years by the local government and society. During the "Thirteenth Five-Year Plan" period, southwestern Yunnan is about to usher in an explosive stage of development. The construction of international railway projects, the construction of border expressway projects, the construction of airport projects and the construction of people's livelihood projects will all start this year. The acquisition of the honorary title of "Key Leading Enterprise in Pu'er City in 2016" will also provide strong support for Yunnan Jianfeng to strive for the right to supply these projects. (Li Yun)

2020

07-31

< 1...58 59 60 61 > 跳转到页