Another Year of the Seven Year Itch
Release time:
2023-04-12
This topic originated from a recent gathering with girlfriends.
While chatting, she suddenly asked, "Do you think there really is a seven-year itch between husband and wife?" I asked, "What exactly does the seven-year itch mean?" She explained that after seven years of marriage, the passion in the relationship between husband and wife has long faded and turned into family affection, which has long lost its original freshness. I thought for a moment. Now I have been married for seven plus one, a total of eight years. Although Mr. K is not as hot as he was at the beginning, he still loves me. It seems that there is no such stage.
and Mr. K have known each other for more than ten years and have been married for eight years. For such a long time, there must be some twists and turns. My parents did not agree with our marriage, because Mr. K's parents had no financial income and were worried that I would work too hard. But now their evaluation is that they have not found the wrong person, can bear hardships, can make money, care about their parents and love their wives.
In the first two years of marriage, because he wanted to make more money, Mr. K chose to work in other places. Basically, he could only come back once a month. I took care of the big and small things at home and the elderly when they were sick. In order to avoid his worry, I will not tell him if there is no big trouble. After all, distant water cannot save nearby fire. In recent years, the child's grandfather's health has been deteriorating. He has to come back to work. In order to make up for the "difference" in income, he contacted friends to take over some business and worked alone in his spare time on weekends and evenings. He was busy working for countless late nights, and I could only silently make supper for him, and then send my daughter to school early the next day, and then send my son to my mother so that he could sleep a little longer.
Live together, it is inevitable that there will be times when the spatula bumps against the edge of the pot. A few years ago, if there was a conflict, Mr. K would choose a few days of cold war, but now, as soon as he turned around, he should eat and speak, and he would deliberately say a few jokes to make me laugh, as if the awkward thing just now had never happened. Maybe he really thinks I have paid a lot to my family. Since my daughter was born, I have been working, and even I have only two days to change jobs. I know his parents' preferences and will buy what they like to eat. When I realized that his parents wanted to rebuild the old house, I took the initiative to ask him to fulfill the old man's wish. Same with Mr. K. Since he returned to Huangshi to work, every time my parents fell ill, he asked for leave and ran around to seek medical treatment. He was more patient than my brother in the hospital. My parents' range hood is not working well, and there is a problem with the toilet. He replaced all of them. During the Spring Festival, my parents bought more fish and meat than the refrigerator could hold, on the same day, I placed an order in Jingdong to buy a large refrigerator with double doors...
Seven years and a year after I got married, Mr. K said that the transportation to work was inconvenient, and his company's position was in the opposite direction to mine, so he bought my first car. Before that, we had countless quarrels because of driving. I really couldn't control his manual gear. I often turned off at the traffic light intersection. I was anxious when I turned off, and got angry when I was anxious. Probably because of this, he never trusted me to drive alone, so that after buying a new car, he took me to the streets to practice after get off work at night. He also said that this is an automatic transmission, just like a child's toy car. If it is still difficult, I guess I can only customize it. Of course I'm not convinced, isn't it because you always like to chatter around when I'm driving?
The most serious conflict after buying a new car was that I once used the accelerator as a brake and almost had an accident. Mr. K certainly wanted to talk about me, but I felt that I was stepping on the brake. How could I admit my mistake? After a big fight, I left the key and took my son out of the car to take a taxi home. He said good things to coax me to get on the bus and took me to eat delicious food, but I just ignored him. Unexpectedly, the next day, Mr. K suddenly sent a picture of a car, saying that he bought you a second-hand car and drove it first. I don't care about you. I will change to a new car when you are familiar with it, so as not to feel distressed when the new car hits. On the third day, the used car was in place. On the morning of the fourth day, he watched me get on the bus and said, drive carefully alone, I won't disturb you. Hmph! I didn't care about him, so I left with one foot on the accelerator. However, after all, it is the first time for a novice to hit the road, and he is still a little flustered. He has been silently chanting the matters needing attention he taught before. When he came home from work in the evening, he didn't expect him to wait early near the parking lot to help me park, saying, "all of you novices can only drive. if you don't help you, the car will probably cross the road". What a long-winded! I like it, though. Hey hey. Mr.
K is such a hard-mouthed and soft-hearted person. We have gone through eight years together, and we have really never experienced the seven-year itch, nor have we had any special contradictions. We just feel that both of us are slowly fading away from our hostility, becoming mature and better. (Junin)
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Group Companies Commend 2020 Advanced
On the afternoon of February 3, the group company held the 2020 annual summary commendation meeting to review the work of the previous year, make arrangements for the work of 2021, sign the 2021 economic responsibility system with various professional companies and directly affiliated enterprises, and solemnly commend the 2020 advanced collectives and individuals. In the past 2020, the sudden outbreak of new crown pneumonia has brought about tremendous changes in the lifestyle of the public and the business environment of enterprises, and has brought unprecedented challenges to the industrial sectors of the peak. In this context, the company has carried out various operation and management work in an orderly manner around the general policy of "making up for shortcomings, improving quality and efficiency, and creating core competitive advantages", overcoming various difficulties, and basically completing the work established at the beginning of the year. target. At the summary and commendation meeting, Yu Jianhong, general manager of the group company, made a work report entitled "following the law, reforming and innovating, and promoting better and faster development of peaks", which actively responded to the new coronary pneumonia epidemic and ensured the safety and health of all employees. Substantial progress has been made in the construction of key investment projects. Continuously strengthen management integration and effectively improve management level; New achievements have been made in scientific and technological innovation and technological transformation. Overcome the impact of the epidemic situation and strive to expand sales; innovate the forms of personnel training, selection and introduction, optimize the salary system and improve the cohesion of enterprises. New achievements have been made in safety and environmental protection management. Strengthen party building, ideological and political work and corporate culture to enhance the cohesion and centripetal force of enterprises; Nine aspects, including effective promotion of corporate image, influence and reputation, have made a comprehensive summary and review of the work in 2020. 2021 is the first year of the "14th Five-Year Plan" and the 100 anniversary of the founding of the Communist Party of China. It is a year of special importance in the process of China's modernization. However, there are many uncertainties in the development of the epidemic and changes in the external environment, the foundation of China's economic recovery is not yet solid, the world economic situation is still complex and severe, the recovery is unstable and unbalanced, and the various derivative risks caused by the impact of the epidemic cannot be ignored. In combination with the spirit of the 2021 Central Economic Work Conference, after a comprehensive analysis of the current national economic situation, policies and the changing trends of the company's related industries, Yu Jianhong, on behalf of the group company, proposed the 2021 work policy as "following the law, keeping the right and bringing forth the new, reforming and innovating, and continuously improving", and around this policy, proposed the key work for 2021: following the market law and trend, achieving the "five persistence", fundamentally reverse the ideological concepts of management cadres; do a good job in project management, cultivate industrial advantages, and steadily promote development; optimize the management system, strengthen management improvement, and improve management efficiency; further strengthen technological innovation, increase investment in technological transformation, and promote "digital intelligence" Factory "construction; respect market laws, pay attention to user needs, and improve marketing capabilities; do a good job in management team building to further strengthen human resource development; promote safety and environmental protection management to a new level; take party building as a guide, strengthen ideological and political work, enrich the connotation of corporate culture, and create" soft power "for enterprise competition; continue to grasp the normal management of the prevention and control of the new coronary pneumonia epidemic to ensure that all work can be carried out smoothly. Yu Jianhong pointed out that on the road of creating a century-old peak, we will face twists and turns, risks and challenges at any time. In the face of many tests, we will never be able to solve the problem, and hope can only rest on ourselves. In 2021, the peak will also face more severe challenges. With a conscientious style, a spirit of perseverance, and unswerving perseverance, we must unite and forge ahead, innovate the old, and work hard to create a brighter future for the peak cause. At the meeting, Yu Jianhong, on behalf of the group company, signed the 2021 economic responsibility system with Daye Peak, Yunnan Peak, Pharmaceutical Company, Health Technology Company, International Trading Company and Cable Company. Huang Jinlong, deputy general manager of the group company and chairman of Shanghai North Carolina Company, signed a responsibility system with the management team on behalf of the Shanghai North Carolina board of directors. Xiang Chongping, deputy general manager of the group company, read out the list of advanced collectives and advanced individuals of the group company in 2020 at the conference. In 2020, a total of 20 advanced collectives such as advanced enterprises, advanced civilized workshops (departments and offices), advanced party organizations, and 25 outstanding individuals such as outstanding employees, innovative experts, outstanding management workers, and outstanding marketers were selected, and outstanding party workers, 24 advanced individuals such as outstanding party members, outstanding party members, outstanding trade union workers, advanced safety and environmental protection workers, and rookie employees were selected. In the warm atmosphere, the advanced representative of the gold enterprise took the stage to receive the award. Zhou Jiping, former general manager of Yunnan Jianfeng, on behalf of advanced enterprises, was at the meeting site. Dong Li, representative of Anhui New Jianfeng North Card, and Wu Lihua, representative of Guizhou Huang Ping Jianfeng, an innovative expert, spoke via video respectively, reviewing the gains and losses of the past year's work and sharing experiences and experiences. On behalf of the party committee and board of directors of the group, Jiang Xiaomeng, secretary of the party committee and chairman of the group, congratulated the advanced collectives and individuals who were commended, thanked all the peak employees for their hard work and achievements, and made a summary speech entitled "seize the day for development, and improve the ability without delay" in view of the market situation and existing problems faced by the company that year (details are published separately in this edition). (this newspaper reporter)
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New Year Message Zhejiang Jianfeng Group Co., Ltd. Party Secretary, Chairman of Jianfeng Group All colleagues of Jianfeng Group: The law returns to the spring, and Vientiane is renewed. Unconsciously, the unforgettable Year of the Gengzi Rat has become a thing of the past, and the New Year of the Year of the Ox is coming to us in great strides. On behalf of the group company, I would like to express my sincere greetings to all the cadres and employees who have worked hard and dedicated for a year. The past year has been an extraordinary year. The sudden neo-coronary pneumonia epidemic has put the global economy and our country through an unprecedented and complex test. This year, we accurately studied and judged the epidemic situation, formulated and implemented various epidemic prevention and control measures as soon as possible, strengthened the publicity of epidemic prevention and control knowledge, organized and prepared epidemic prevention materials, strengthened the dynamic management of employees' health, and actively organized the resumption of work and production. Effectively curbed the adverse effects of the epidemic on production and operation; while doing a good job in internal epidemic prevention and control, it also donated money and materials to the government, charity, medical institutions, it has made a positive contribution to the joint force "war epidemic. During this period, no one in the whole group was infected, and the most severe period of the epidemic was safe and healthy. This year, we shouldered the extraordinary responsibility during the extraordinary period, made prudent and decisive scientific decisions, gathered the wisdom of all staff to overcome difficulties, and made obvious progress in market expansion, technological transformation, cost control, safety and environmental protection. This year, we paid close attention to the construction of the project. Guizhou Huangping Jianfeng Cement Project was successfully completed and put into production and reached the production standard. The internationalization project of Jianfeng Pharmaceutical, the technological transformation project of Anhui Xinbeika and the new warehouse project of Jianfeng International Trading Company are progressing in an orderly manner. New development projects are also being actively sought and discussed. This year, we strengthened the management and control of business risks, carried out in-depth optimization of institutions and positions, and vigorously promoted standardized and standardized management, and the operational efficiency of enterprises was significantly improved. This year, we innovated the forms of talent training, selection and introduction, optimized the salary system, worked hard to do a good job in corporate culture, and enhanced the cohesion and centripetal force of the enterprise. In this year, we have successively won a series of honors, such as "China's top 100 cement clinker production enterprises", "China's top 100 building materials enterprises", "excellent unit of corporate culture brand construction" in Zhejiang Province, "National May 4th Red Flag Youth League Committee", "China's top 500 enterprise credit", "top 100 pharmaceutical industry enterprises" and "top 50 creative enterprises" in Jinhua City, The corporate image and influence have been greatly improved. This year, we encountered many unprecedented difficulties and made more efforts than in previous years. The staff of pharmaceutical companies and large pharmacies are still organizing epidemic prevention materials on New Year's Eve. The backbone of Daye Peak drove "retrograde" thousands of miles back to their posts to organize epidemic prevention and maintenance. In order to put into production early and seize the market, the cadres and employees are engaged in equipment debugging regardless of day and night during equipment debugging and trial production... There are many flash moments, which are worth remembering forever. All the achievements of this year are the result of the hard work and sweat of the company's employees. They are the result of all the peak people expressing their responsibilities, creating achievements with hard work, hard work, wisdom and hard work. Here, on behalf of the group company, I would like to express my heartfelt thanks to all the cadres and employees of the peak and say to you: everyone is working hard! The new year brings new hope and new challenges. 2021 is the first year to implement the "14th Five-Year Plan" and start a new journey of building a modern socialist country in an all-round way. It is also the 100 anniversary of the founding of the Communist Party of China. At present, China is facing a great change not seen in a century, the world pattern is also undergoing great changes, the global epidemic of new crown pneumonia epidemic to accelerate the evolution of this great change. We should be soberly aware that all the existing glory on our report card has become the past, and the future of the peak will meet all kinds of known and unknown risks and challenges, and the grand blueprint of "creating a century-old peak" also requires every peak person to show greater drive, make more efforts, and show unyielding "bull strength" and conscientious "bull spirit", write a more beautiful chapter together. As the saying goes, a year's plan lies in spring. Spring represents the vitality, represents the hope, but also represents the future. At this peaceful and festive moment, let's wish all peak cadres and employees a happy New Year, good health, happy family and all the best!
2021
02-10
As the Spring Festival is approaching, Cai Yan, secretary of the Wucheng District CPC Committee of Jinhua City, visited Jianfeng on January 19 to express condolences to Jiang Xiaomeng, a top-notch talent in Jinhua City and chairman of the group company, and extended festive wishes and greetings to him. I would also like to express my gratitude to Jianfeng for his contribution to Jinhua's economic and social development. Jiang Xiaomeng and Cai Yan exchanged views on the future construction of the ecological corridor in central Zhejiang, the expansion and extension of the Jin Yi Kechuang corridor, and the development direction of biotechnology and medical device industry. They also introduced the new products of the peak pharmaceutical sector and invited her to visit the company's production line. At present, the domestic new coronary pneumonia epidemic has repeated, Jinhua is also strengthening prevention and control efforts, Cai Yan in particular for the peak in the early 2020 epidemic, Wucheng District epidemic prevention work is the most difficult, the most severe situation in a timely manner to lend a helping hand, donated forehead temperature guns, disinfectant, masks and other epidemic prevention materials, to medical institutions to donate money and materials to express gratitude. Cai Yan fully affirmed the business performance and development trend of Jianfeng Group in recent years, and highly praised Jianfeng people's pragmatic and innovative business attitude. She said that the pro-Qing political and business relations formed by Jianfeng Group and various units of the Wucheng District Government over the years have not come easily. She hopes that the two sides will further strengthen exchanges, and the government and enterprises will work together to create a good business environment. The Spring Festival is approaching. I wish Jianfeng will develop to a higher level in the new year, "just like your name", pursuing to rise to the top and constantly climb the peak. (Reporter Chen Shengmu)
2021
01-21
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