Another Year of the Seven Year Itch
Release time:
2023-04-12
This topic originated from a recent gathering with girlfriends.
While chatting, she suddenly asked, "Do you think there really is a seven-year itch between husband and wife?" I asked, "What exactly does the seven-year itch mean?" She explained that after seven years of marriage, the passion in the relationship between husband and wife has long faded and turned into family affection, which has long lost its original freshness. I thought for a moment. Now I have been married for seven plus one, a total of eight years. Although Mr. K is not as hot as he was at the beginning, he still loves me. It seems that there is no such stage.
and Mr. K have known each other for more than ten years and have been married for eight years. For such a long time, there must be some twists and turns. My parents did not agree with our marriage, because Mr. K's parents had no financial income and were worried that I would work too hard. But now their evaluation is that they have not found the wrong person, can bear hardships, can make money, care about their parents and love their wives.
In the first two years of marriage, because he wanted to make more money, Mr. K chose to work in other places. Basically, he could only come back once a month. I took care of the big and small things at home and the elderly when they were sick. In order to avoid his worry, I will not tell him if there is no big trouble. After all, distant water cannot save nearby fire. In recent years, the child's grandfather's health has been deteriorating. He has to come back to work. In order to make up for the "difference" in income, he contacted friends to take over some business and worked alone in his spare time on weekends and evenings. He was busy working for countless late nights, and I could only silently make supper for him, and then send my daughter to school early the next day, and then send my son to my mother so that he could sleep a little longer.
Live together, it is inevitable that there will be times when the spatula bumps against the edge of the pot. A few years ago, if there was a conflict, Mr. K would choose a few days of cold war, but now, as soon as he turned around, he should eat and speak, and he would deliberately say a few jokes to make me laugh, as if the awkward thing just now had never happened. Maybe he really thinks I have paid a lot to my family. Since my daughter was born, I have been working, and even I have only two days to change jobs. I know his parents' preferences and will buy what they like to eat. When I realized that his parents wanted to rebuild the old house, I took the initiative to ask him to fulfill the old man's wish. Same with Mr. K. Since he returned to Huangshi to work, every time my parents fell ill, he asked for leave and ran around to seek medical treatment. He was more patient than my brother in the hospital. My parents' range hood is not working well, and there is a problem with the toilet. He replaced all of them. During the Spring Festival, my parents bought more fish and meat than the refrigerator could hold, on the same day, I placed an order in Jingdong to buy a large refrigerator with double doors...
Seven years and a year after I got married, Mr. K said that the transportation to work was inconvenient, and his company's position was in the opposite direction to mine, so he bought my first car. Before that, we had countless quarrels because of driving. I really couldn't control his manual gear. I often turned off at the traffic light intersection. I was anxious when I turned off, and got angry when I was anxious. Probably because of this, he never trusted me to drive alone, so that after buying a new car, he took me to the streets to practice after get off work at night. He also said that this is an automatic transmission, just like a child's toy car. If it is still difficult, I guess I can only customize it. Of course I'm not convinced, isn't it because you always like to chatter around when I'm driving?
The most serious conflict after buying a new car was that I once used the accelerator as a brake and almost had an accident. Mr. K certainly wanted to talk about me, but I felt that I was stepping on the brake. How could I admit my mistake? After a big fight, I left the key and took my son out of the car to take a taxi home. He said good things to coax me to get on the bus and took me to eat delicious food, but I just ignored him. Unexpectedly, the next day, Mr. K suddenly sent a picture of a car, saying that he bought you a second-hand car and drove it first. I don't care about you. I will change to a new car when you are familiar with it, so as not to feel distressed when the new car hits. On the third day, the used car was in place. On the morning of the fourth day, he watched me get on the bus and said, drive carefully alone, I won't disturb you. Hmph! I didn't care about him, so I left with one foot on the accelerator. However, after all, it is the first time for a novice to hit the road, and he is still a little flustered. He has been silently chanting the matters needing attention he taught before. When he came home from work in the evening, he didn't expect him to wait early near the parking lot to help me park, saying, "all of you novices can only drive. if you don't help you, the car will probably cross the road". What a long-winded! I like it, though. Hey hey. Mr.
K is such a hard-mouthed and soft-hearted person. We have gone through eight years together, and we have really never experienced the seven-year itch, nor have we had any special contradictions. We just feel that both of us are slowly fading away from our hostility, becoming mature and better. (Junin)
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On January 11, the Ministry of Natural Resources issued an announcement announcing the list of mines that were included in the national list of green mines in 2020, with the Jinshan limestone mine of Daye Peak Cement Company among them. The final result of the green mine selection is in accordance with the requirements of the notice of the general office of the Ministry of natural resources on doing a good job in the selection of green mines in 2020 (natural resources office letter [2020] No. 839), on the basis of enterprise self-evaluation, third-party evaluation, provincial verification and recommendation, after examination and social publicity. In 2020, a total of 301 mines were selected and included in the national green mine list, subject to social supervision. Green mine refers to the implementation of scientific and orderly mining in the whole process of mineral resources development, the control of the disturbance of the mining area and the surrounding ecological environment within a controllable range, and the realization of environmental ecology, scientific mining methods, efficient resource utilization, and management Information digitization and mining area community harmony of the mine. In order to meet the selection criteria of national green mines, we must carry out the work from two categories and nine aspects, namely, the comprehensive utilization of resources, technological innovation, energy conservation and emission reduction led by the technical strength of mining enterprises, and the operation of mines according to law, standardized management, environmental protection, land reclamation, community harmony, corporate culture and so on. These requirements fully reflect the development concepts advocated by the current state, such as people-oriented, harmonious development of society and environment, and sustainable development. Jinshan limestone mine is a limestone raw material mine supporting Daye peak production line, about 1km away from the plant. Since it was put into operation, Jinshan limestone mine has been carrying out ore mining according to law. With the deepening of the establishment of green mines, Daye Peak, based on the principle of "mining while managing", has made orderly progress in the work of mine greening, dust control and information-based intelligent mine construction. It has successively built a centralized management and control platform for mine automation, integrating automatic control system, remote monitoring system, reserve management system and various monitoring systems, basically realizing the automation of fixed facilities and unattended operation. Harden the roads in mining areas; tens of millions of yuan have been invested in the restoration and management of the geological environment, planting more than 20000 camphor trees, Luan Shu and other seedlings, more than 2000 square meters of Parthenocissus creeper, laying more than 26000 square meters of lawns, and spraying more than 60000 square meters of guest soil. The forest land in some areas that will not be mined within 5 years has been restored, and the overall look of the mining area is new, which fully embodies the green mine development concept of "innovation, green, green. (this newspaper reporter)
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On December 11, the cable company's subway special communication cable utility model patent authorization announcement, this is the cable company's fourth new utility model patent this year. Metro special communication cable is a kind of special cable which is optimized and improved on the basis of traditional urban communication cable. In order to meet the requirements of the subway environment and users, the cable company studies the longitudinal waterproof, radial waterproof and high flame retardant performance of the cable. In terms of longitudinal waterproofing, the traditional use of hot oil paste is changed to cold oil paste, and an automatic oil filling device is made, which not only simplifies the structure of the filling equipment, reduces the investment cost and floor area of the equipment, but also has simple filling process, easy operation and control, stable product quality, energy consumption saving, production cost reduction, no paste dripping during filling, and clean and pollution-free production site. The ointment filling process is not affected by temperature changes, and there is no insulation layer scald, paste dripping and cracking. Radial waterproofing adopts special hot melt adhesive technology that can bond metals, so that the joints of aluminum strips are tightly bonded and the radial waterproofing is more thorough, thus solving the problems of unround appearance of sheath, depression or flounces, poor sealing performance, affecting the waterproof performance of cables, etc. caused by the original heating technology of hot air gun. At the same time, in terms of high flame retardancy, the material of the outer sheath is improved, and the environmentally friendly flame retardant low-smoke halogen-free material is adopted, so that the product meets the environmental protection and fire safety requirements of the current key projects. With the increase of domestic subway projects, the use of subway special communication cables is also increasing. The acquisition of this patent has a certain effect on cable companies to expand their market influence and increase sales. (lu chao-fang)
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On December 23, Guizhou Huangping Jianfeng Cement Company obtained the national industrial product production license. According to the relevant policies and regulations, the products produced by the enterprise meet the national standards, have applied for the national industrial product production license procedures, and have been accepted and filed by the relevant competent departments. During the period of waiting for the license to be issued, the trial production products can be sold, but the words "trial products" must be printed on the packaging bag. Due to the outbreak of the new coronary pneumonia epidemic at the beginning of the year, the construction of the Huangping peak project and the handling of production licenses and other related work have been affected to some extent. After the initial relief of the epidemic in May, Huang Ping peak in the intensified construction at the same time, but also began to carry out the production license processing. Due to the differences in the understanding of the relevant requirements and standards by the local competent departments, the relevant departments of Huang Ping Jianfeng worked together to deeply understand the local policy requirements and actively communicate with the administrative departments, and finally completed the work. Although trial products and formal products are subject to the same quality management standards, in actual marketing, user acceptance is often "discounted". The relevant person in charge of Huang Ping Jianfeng said that with this "birth permit", it means that the product has been officially affirmed and licensed by the state. As a new force in Southeast Guizhou, Jianfeng cement can truly participate in the market competition at the same level as the original local similar products, which will play a positive role in promoting the follow-up production and sales work. (Zhu Yong)
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On the afternoon of December 19, Wu Jin, deputy secretary of Huangshi municipal Party committee and mayor, Wang Gang, Secretary of Daye municipal Party committee, and Wang Ding, mayor of Daye City, visited Daye Jianfeng cement company for investigation. Wu Jin proposed that Daye Peak, as a key industrial enterprise in Daye City, should strengthen its advantages and make up for its shortcomings under the leadership of the Daye City Government, and strive to be the main engine and pioneer demonstration of the city's transformation and upgrading and high-quality development. Accompanied by Yuan Xianming, executive deputy general manager of Daye Peak, and Tao Yesheng, deputy general manager, Wu Jin and his entourage visited the production site of Daye Peak, spoke highly of the site management level of Daye Peak, and carefully inquired about the production and operation situation in 2020 and the future medium-and long-term development plan. Prior to this, the Huangshi Municipal CPC Committee held the second Plenary session of the 13th CPC Central Committee, planning to formulate the 14th five-year Plan and build a regional development layout system of "one heart, two belts, multi-point support, and global development." Wu Jin stressed in his investigation that he hoped Daye would seize the favorable opportunity of the "14th five-year Plan" building materials industry, actively respond to the government's industrial construction transformation plan, and make positive contributions to the reconstruction of Huangshi industry. (Xu Ying, Wang Yiyan)
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On the morning of December 25, the group company held a farewell party for retired employees in 2020. Jiang Xiaomeng, secretary of the party committee and chairman of the group company, Qin Xuping, chairman of the trade union of the group company, and more than 20 retired old employees gathered together to share their work feelings and talk about their future life. Qin Xuping briefly reviewed the development history of Jianfeng Group over the past 60 years, thanked the retired employees and wished them good health and a happy life. He said that Jianfeng Group's achievements embody the wisdom, strength and painstaking efforts of the old comrades, and Jianfeng Group will not forget their contributions. I also hope that the old employees will not retreat and continue to pay attention to supporting peak development. Old employees are also actively speaking, talk about life planning after retirement. Jiang Xiaomeng introduced to the retired employees the company's current overall operation, the latest progress of the cement and pharmaceutical sector, and the industrial layout in various places. I hope the trade union will strengthen the service awareness of retired employees and do a good job in logistics services. I hope that the old employees will keep in touch with the company, communicate more, make more suggestions and suggestions, and thank the retired employees for their hard work over the years and their dedication and support to Jianfeng Group. (Reporter Chen Shengmu)
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